Learning Social Emotional Skills in A Time Of Social Distancing

The South Carolina Early Learning Standards are incorporated into the Sunflower classroom curriculum. 

Standards addressed in this post include:

  • Goal ESD-3: Children form relationships and interact positively with familiar adults who are consistent and responsive to their needs.
  • Goal ESD-4: Children form relationships and interact positively with other children.
  • Goal ESD-6: Children identify, manage, and express their feelings.
  • Goal ESD-7: Children recognize and respond to the needs and feelings of others

Early Childhood education has an essential focus on social-emotional development that helps children grow into emotionally intelligent and successful individuals. In the Sunflower classroom, the three-year-old class, we pay special attention to forming and sustaining peer to peer relationships and teacher to student relationships (ESD-3, ESD-4). To foster these relationships, we model and practice how to identify, manage, and express feelings and recognize and respond to others’ feelings (ESD-6, ESD-7)

Building Relationships Through the Computer

This year started with many changes, hurdles, and opportunities for growth as we tackled school during a time of social distancing. We began our school year virtually for the first three weeks. We soon learned that we had to adapt our typical in-person teaching style into a format where building relationships on an online platform was the priority. Young students learn through play rather than the direct instruction that online learning invites. We began doing small group “virtual playdates,” where a group of one or two students would engage in cooperative play and interact freely, trying to mimic a small group setting in a real classroom. Examples of this include playing with playdough or painting. Students began to increasingly interact and build relationships with the teachers and other students as the play continued over the first three weeks. 

To encourage the formation of relationships with their classmates, we thought that it was important for the children to get used to seeing each other’s faces and learning each other’s names (ESD-4). We created the book Sunflowers, Sunflowers, Who Do You See? To help the students become familiar with all of their classmates.

Emotional Expression While Mask-Wearing

As we returned to the classroom, the students were excited to see their peers and to continue building the relationships that they had made during the online instruction period. To begin the year in person, we began to discuss the different feelings that we have. This topic was introduced during circle time through picture books, games, and discussions. We read many stories, such as The Way I Feel, that showed images of different facial expressions and body language. One obstacle that we encountered was the difficulty of teaching children how to recognize others’ feelings when only their eyes are visible (ESD-7). We adapted to this new challenge by focusing on the eyes and what the rest of the body was saying. After practicing and discussing how we can identify others’ emotions while wearing masks, we asked the students how you can tell if someone is angry. Their answers included:

“Their eyebrows”

“Grumpy faces”

“When they stomp their feet”

“They are grumpy when they cross their arms.”

The class exploration of facial expressions and recognizing their peers’ feelings was extended into class centers and small group activities. Students used magnetic facial features to create different emotions and used shapes and glue to create facial features.


Creating Relationships on the Playground

At the start of the year, the children took their masks off for outdoor play. While relationships were slower to evolve in the classroom with masks, everyone was coming out of their shell outside. This observation showed us that young children benefit from seeing the entire facial expression of their peers. We continued to encourage the students to study their peers’ faces when there was conflict, and the students were mask-free. Without the added barrier of a mask, the students could identify how their friend was feeling more accurately (ESD-7). As cases began to rise and temperatures began to lower, we had the students wear masks outside as well. We were pleasantly surprised that since the strong relational bonds already had a foundation, the added mask-wearing did not impact the growing relationships. Students continued to collaborate in play with their peers and ask the teacher for assistance when needed (ESD-3).

A Fun-filled Semester

Although this year has brought many challenges with the addition of mask wearing, social distancing, and plexiglass, our students have continued to develop social emotional skills. We have collected notes throughout the semester on their interactions, and here are some examples:

“Would you like to play with me?”

“Let me go get you some help”

“I want to be alone right now”

“They are my best friends!”

“Come over here and let’s build this thing!”

In our class, the students have developed close bonds, positive relationships, and conflict resolution skills.

Keeping Children Moving in the Summer

Gross motor skills are the abilities required to control the large muscles of our body for activities like walking, running, jumping, and skipping. Teaching children motor skills is directly related to their physical fitness and development. By introducing them to these skills at such a young age, it can help children develop and mature their movements as  they grow. Giving children the opportunity to move is the most important thing you can do. These movements can be small or big, and don’t need to be complex. Jumping, dancing, skipping, running, and walking all give children the opportunity to work on their gross motor development. Focusing on these skills will help children learn to enjoy movement and exercise and help them practice healthy habits for the future.

At ECDC children have plenty of time to move during free play in the classroom, run around during outside time on the playground, or build forts during the afternoon in the multipurpose room. As school ends and we’re still home during the pandemic, there are plenty of ways to keep children busy and active during the summer.

     

Honoring Outdoor Play

Giving children the opportunity to play outside helps them appreciate nature, move their bodies, and explore the world around them. Providing students with hands-on, outside learning stimulates their senses through what they hear, touch, see, and feel. Children can build with sticks, rake leaves, jump in mud puddles, and help plant gardens. Through outdoor play, children learn to enjoy the natural environment and learn to seek out exercise, fresh air, and activity. Outdoor play helps children appreciate the world around them, take part in physical activity, and learn to care for the environment.

At ECDC we give our students many opportunities explore outside. Our lessons connect classroom learning to the outside world, and we focus on practicing ways to take of our earth like recycling, not using too much water when washing our hands, and bringingreusable containers for lunch. Our outside areas enhance students motor skills because of all the running, climbing, and exploring they can do. Children can ride bikes, toss a ball, swing, and dig in the sandbox.

     

Having children home all day every day is much different than it was when parks and beaches were open but there are still plenty of ways to keep them busy with little to no materials. Keeping children moving and practicing their gross motor skills will benefit them when we can hopefully get back to school in the fall! Giving children the opportunity to practice these healthy habits will help them develop their physical fitness and help them learn to enjoy movement and exercise.

Gross Motor Practice 

Here are a few ideas that Ms. Allyce (Seashell Graduate Assistant) wanted to share that may be fun to explore in the summer months away from ECDC. While many families may have gone on numerous walks and bike rides, she wanted to provide some resources and ideas on ways to stay moving and active at home, both inside and outside.

 What’s your name? Workout

Below is a chart of exercises that you can work on with your children. The goal is for them to spell their name and then complete the exercise listed next to each letter of their name. This can be tied in with writing and reading practice, because they have to write their name and then read the exercise. Modeling this for your child will be a fun way to get them engaged and get the whole family moving!

Yoga for Kids

During our second week of Zoom meetings in the Seashell class, we focused on plants and flowers. To get students out of their seats, Ms. Jessica taught them a yoga pose at the end of each meeting! The seashells enjoyed this and by the end of the week were masters at the Flower pose. One fun way to do this is to go outside and try and find each thing before you practice the pose. You can do this while planting a garden, going on a walk, or exploring your neighborhood or backyard. Yoga focuses on both the body and the mind, and is a great exercise to use with children! There is also fun yoga channels that you can tune into to make it an interactive way to learn new poses with your children. Cosmic Kids focuses on both yoga and mindfulness that will keep your children calm and happy throughout the day!

https://m.youtube.com/user/CosmicKidsYoga?fbclid=IwAR1kws9yOxW_gRLlqExLW29-uGVhAMVNxi6OsxkyR_OdA07etiMcPtCTKCs

Tic-Tac-Toss

For some gross motor practice, you need three simple materials for tic-tac-toss. First you need to tape down a tic-tac-toe board on your floor, or you can draw it with chalk on your sidewalk. Next you need two different color bean bags or balls, that your children can work on throwing and tossing. Children will try their best to throw the bean bags in the square of their choice and once they get three in a row, they win! This helps children practice taking turns and work on their throwing!

These are only a few ideas to get children moving, but they all incorporate gross motor development, getting up and moving, and practicing healthy habits. The most important thing is that children are having fun and using these activities to stay active. A requirement for all is doing them with a smile and enjoying time together as a family!

The South Carolina Standards that this post is focused on are stated below:

Health and Physical Development (HPD)

Subdomain: Physical Health and Growth

  • Goal HPD-2: Children engage in and sustain various forms of physical play indoors and outdoors.

Subdomain: Motor Development

  • Goal HPD-4: Children develop the large muscle control and abilities needed to move through and explore their environment.
  • Goal HPD-5: Children develop small muscle control and hand-eye coordination to manipulate objects and work with tools.

 

Recognizing and Responding to the Needs of Others

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The South Carolina Early Learning Standards are incorporated into the Sunflower classroom curriculum. 

Standards addressed during the class exploration on giving include:

  • Goal ESD-7: Children recognize and respond to the needs and feelings of others.

  •  Goal ESD-4: Children form relationships and interact positively with other children.

  • Goal LDC-2: Children participate in conversations with peers and adults in one-on-one, small, and larger group interactions. 

Throughout the year, the Sunflower class has had a central focus on recognizing and responding to the needs and feelings of others through giving and kind actions. (Goal ESD-7) This year-long thread of giving began the first week of school when the children learned the expectations of the classroom, one being “kindness towards friends” (Goal ESD-4). Out of this discussion, the class brainstormed different ways that you could be kind to someone. Ideas were suggested, such as drawing a picture or giving hugs. When the children were asked “How can you be a good friend?” answers included:

“Help each other”

“Lift people up when they need help”

“Hugging someone when they are hurt”

“Sharing Toys”

Then an  idea came to bake something for another person to make them happy. From this child’s suggestion, our class began our exploration of what it means to give and how it makes others feel. (Goal ESD-7).

          

 

Learning Through Literature

 A substantial interest emerged around the topic of baking. The teachers followed the lead of the children’s engagement and chose the book The Little Red Hen as a bridge between their interest in baking and the overarching theme of giving. Literature is a way that children can learn about the concepts of giving and empathy. After reading the children’s book, The Little Red Hen, a student had the idea that the class could make bread to share. At circle time, the class discussed who they could make the bread for. The decision was made that the Sunflower’s would make bread for the Butterflies because they often do nice things for them. (Goal LDC-2) By extending their giving outside of the classroom, students began to learn the importance of being kind and generous to children around them and how that helps build new relationships. (Goal ESD-4) After sharing the bread with the Butterflies, there was a notable increase in play and interaction between the two classes during outdoor time.

           

 

Giving in the Local Community

As the holiday season began, the class thought of different people that they could make treats for. We decided to reach out to the local community and visit a nearby senior center to bring cookies and holiday cheer. During circle time, the children learned about how some people do not have people to visit them.  Each student worked hard to measure the ingredients, mix, and scoop the dough so that our class had a gift to give the adults in the center. 

At this point in the year, the class’s focus on giving extended into a lesson on empathy. Empathy, or the ability to understand and share the feelings of another, is a skill that must be taught to young children. It can be hard for children to understand because it is a multi-step process of decoding the emotions of another person and then thinking about how it would feel if to be in their shoes. The best way to teach empathy is through thought-provoking conversations and modeling empathetic behavior.

Having the children practice an act of giving at the senior center allowed many of them to have “ah-ha” moments about how doing nice things makes others feel. When asked what their favorite part of going to the senior center was, one student replied:

 “Giving them cookies and making them happy.”

 

Collaboration with a Local School

Another extension of giving in the community came out of ECDC’s long-standing relationship with Memminger Elementary School. During the week of Valentine’s day, the class got excited to celebrate love and friendship. We extended an invitation to the three-year-old class at Memminger for a playdate and to create a “Friendship Fruit Salad.” Both classes brought a bowl of fruit to the playground and mixed it to make one big Valentine’s Day snack! The children were able to recognize the happiness that sharing fruit gave the other class because they were feeling that emotion as well.

 

Giving to People in Need

As a summation of our focus on understanding the needs of others and responding to those needs, the class set up a toy drive. Before the children went home to look for toys they wanted to share, the class discussed how sometimes people do not have the things they need. At first, the children had a hard time understanding why they would give away their toys. The idea of being generous was introduced. Over two weeks, the students were encouraged to look through their toys at home and pick one to donate to a child who doesn’t have any. The more discussion our class had about giving and the children the toys were for, the more excited the children began to get. The class left a box near the front of the room for the toys to be dropped off in. Each day more and more children would bring their friends over to the box and show them with pride the toy they had donated. For the class to understand where the toys were going, one of the organization’s volunteers came by to pick up the donations and thank each child as they handed her their gift. The students were overjoyed to give their toys away when they understood that they were for another child who needed them! Through this year-long exploration of giving and empathy, the children’s ability to care for their classmates’ needs and think about their local community became evident through their conversations and dramatic play scenarios.

 

 

 

Kindness and Emotions

The South Carolina Early Learning Standards are incorporated into the Seashell class curriculum.  This month’s focus is on Emotional and Social Development (ESD).

  • Goal ESD-6: Children identify, manage, and express their feelings.
  • Goal ESD-7: Children recognize and respond to the needs and feelings of others.
  • Goal ESD-4: Children form relationships and interact positively with other children.
  • Goal ESD-5: Children demonstrate the social and behavioral skills needed to successfully participate in groups.

The seashells have been discussing what it means to be kind and identifying feelings and emotions. Stanley and Sally Seashell, our classroom puppets, were introduced to the Shells. The puppets were used to display different emotions to the children. The teachers also introduced picture cards of facial expressions. The children were asked to identify the emotion displayed (happy, angry or sad) in each photo. The children explored mimicking the expressions in a mirror. Sally and Stanley acted out different scenarios and asked the Seashells to help them work out their problems. From these observations, the children were able to make comments on how they thought the puppets might feel. Juliette stated that “she should hug him” since she noticed the one puppet was feeling sad, and Mary said, “they can share!”

Over the next few days, we extended our learning by talking about what it meant to be a good friend and how you can show kindness to others. We read several books on demonstrating kindness and identifying emotions. We discussed ways to be kind and documented the children’s thinking on chart paper. Some responses included, “giving hugs, sharing books, and cleaning up”.

Throughout our study on emotions and kindness, we recognized when the children were doing something kind or helpful and would write the act on a “sprinkle” and add it to our kindness donut. Some of the observations included “John gave Keagan a turn with a toy” and “Owen cleaned up a mess that wasn’t his”. We would read the sprinkles out loud every day so the children could get recognition for their kindness and inspire others to be kind as well. This allowed us to provide opportunities for them to interact appropriately and be aware of their emotions, as well as recognize others’ expressions and emotions. 

Our inquiry into recognizing emotions and kindness promoted an atmosphere of cooperation and respect among the children. We continue to aim to create a positive classroom environment where the ‘Shells can openly express their feelings, figure out how to become good friends, and learn how a simple act of kindness can go a long way.

 

 

Community Cookies

There have been many traditions that have been established within ECDC’s community over the years. One of the students’ favorites is Movie Night, where they get to dress in their pajamas after school hours, eat cookies and drink hot chocolate, then watch a few holiday movies with their peers.  For many years there was the tradition of Gingerbread Night for the Butterfly class (4/5K) where families who had created a model of their home, answered questions with their child related to state standards, then spent an evening decorating their gingerbread house, which would be on display in the hall for Movie Night.  This activity grew out of a study of our families, home and community. The downside was that it required a heavy load of food-based supplies which were thrown in the trash shortly after the gingerbread houses went home.

 

This year we created a new tradition.

 

As the teachers began to think and plan for the school year they decided that the Gingerbread House tradition could be altered to be more sustainable and meaningful.   As members of the College of Charleston we are encouraged to consider more sustainable ways of thinking.

“What a pleasant surprise to be hand-delivered fresh cookies made by ECDC friends! When I think about how much effort they put into making, decorating, and packaging the goodies, I am so impressed. Add to that their courage to use their “big kid” voices to present the cookies to adults they may not personally know. Wow…what a fantastic experience for the children. Thank you!”  – Courtney Howard, Acting Dean, EHHP

Last school year one of our parents shared his knowledge of running a sandwich shop.  We wanted to recreate this activity of having the children make something that could be shared with others.

 

The beginning of this year was spent getting to know students and families as we create our classroom community.  Students share their family page that goes into a book for everyone to read and enjoy.

We put student pictures on a large map of Charleston to see where we all live in the greater community, and this year we even included the workplaces of Moms and Dads.

   

These activities naturally led to exploring our immediate community (Memminger, College of Charleston) and this is how the idea of creating something to share with others was born.

Teacher and students in community

We were also interested in keeping the tradition of families coming together in our classroom community, so we decided to decorate cookies.   We cooked pre-packaged cookies of a certain size that families decorated on “Cookie Night.”  The children in each family could enjoy one cookie the night of, then we packaged the rest to distribute.

The next day, the children walked around the community to deliver cookies to our neighbors.

“I was surprised by the confidence in particular children to approach a complete stranger as we delivered cookies.”  – Mary White, Master Teacher

The event was well received by all and we look forward to continuing this tradition in the future!

cookies

 

 

 

 

 

Language Development and Communication through Fairy Tales

The South Carolina Early Learning Standards are incorporated into the Sunflower class curriculum.  This week’s focus is: Language Development and Communication (LDC). 

The Sunflowers spent the month of January reading fairy tales, focusing on Goldilocks and the Three Bears, The Three Little Pigs, Jack and the Beanstalk, and The Three Billy Goats Gruff.  The students compared and contrasted the many different versions of each story and could identify the idiosyncrasies that made each one unique.  Our classroom reading center overflowed with books and offered the students motivation to read and recreate their favorite tales individually or as a group (Goal LDC-8).  

Using their familiarity with each tale, the Sunflowers expanded their vocabulary and continued to develop phonological awareness (LDC-11).  With magnetic words and pictures, the students were able to identify beginning letter sounds and recognize that some words shared a first letter.  Even though we read numerous versions of the same fairy tale, the Sunflowers showed preference for specific versions and could express what made a certain book their favorite over the others.  

Once the students were comfortable with the stories and their basic structure, we used the information to bring them to life using collaborative story writing (LDC-10).  In small groups, the Sunflowers chose a familiar story as inspiration, added and changed the characters (a unicorn was a welcome addition to the Three Little Pigs), and dictated a script to later be performed for the rest of the class. This expansion of their story comprehension offered a wonderful opportunity for the students to add their creative touch to beloved tales!

Self Control: We Practice Early and Often

Child: “My turn! Me! Me! I wanna go! My turn!”

Teacher: “Everyone please sit down. You will all have a turn, you just have to wait,”

As a parent or teacher of a preschool age child, these words are all too familiar.  Teaching young children to control their impulses is something worth being taught — in fact, it is essential.

Caption: After reading a book about about sharing, the Seashells are given an opportunity to practice sharing blocks just like in the story.

What is Self-Control?

Self-Control is also called inhibitory control and is “the skill we use to master and filter our thoughts and impulses so we can resist temptations, distractions, and habits and to pause and think before we act” (Center on the Developing Child at Harvard University, 2011). Inhibitory control is a crucial component of executive functioning skills, which help us plan, focus attention, switch gears, and do multiple tasks at once.

Why is it important to teach Self-Control?

As children get older and attend school, they will have to increasingly work with others and will need to have self-control. While self-control means waiting for your turn, it also can mean having restraint from lashing out at others if you don’t get your way, or ignoring distractions to stay on task. These are essential skills needed for success later in life, and children need support and practice in building these skills.

How do we practice Self-Control in the Seashell class?
  • Songs and Games: The “Popcorn” song, “Sleeping, Sleeping” song, “Teddy Bear, Teddy Bear” are action rhymes and songs that we use in the classroom. In each of these songs or games, the children have to quickly stop an active activity and stay still until the cue is given to move again. Though they may have the desire to continue moving, over time, they learn to control these impulses.
  • Build in wait time: We never dismiss children from our circle time all at once. The teacher asks questions about colors, letters in name, or identifiable attributes to stagger their dismissal. For example, the teacher may say, “If you’re wearing blue, you may go wash your hands.” Over time, the children become accustomed to not all jumping up at once and have practiced waiting, thus gaining self-control.
  • Dramatic Play and Modeling Language: After reading Should I Share My Ice Cream?”by Mo Willems, the Seashells practiced asking one another if they would share their pretend ice cream, and then carefully maneuvered the “ice cream” onto the other’s cone. During this game, the children had to wait for their turn to play, practice sharing vocabulary (ex. please, thank you, here you go), and use patience and control to carefully transfer the ice cream.

S.C. Early Learning Standards:

ESD-5: Children demonstrate the social and behavioral skills needed to successfully participate in groups

ESD-5e: Follow social rules, transitions, and routines that have been explained to them, with reminders and practice.

ESD-5i: Wait for a short time to get what they want (a turn with a toy, snack), with guidance and support.

References and Further Reading:

Center on the Developing Child at Harvard University (2011). Building the Brain’s “Air Traffic Control” System: How Early Experiences Shape the Development of Executive Function: Working Paper No. 11.

Retrieved from

www.developingchild.harvard.edu.

https://www.edutopia.org/article/simple-ways-to-help-young-kids-develop-self-control-donna-wilson-marcus-conyers

https://www.naeyc.org/our-work/families/help-your-preschooler-gain-self-control

https://developingchild.harvard.edu/resources/activities-guide-enhancing-and-practicing-executive-function-skills-with-children-from-infancy-to-adolescence/

Emily Watts

Graduate Assistant in the Seashell Class (age 2-3)

The Importance of Story

 

Teacher working with students in writing Timeline

Stories and Storytelling have always been a part of my life. My grandparents, father, and uncle all delighted in telling stories and many of my childhood memories involve listening to family stories. I guess it is not surprising that stories have become integral to my classroom but getting here was a multi-year process.

When I first started teaching kindergarten in 2003 the children wrote/drew every day for 20 minutes in little books. I sometimes prompted them but usually left them free to choose their own topics. In 2006/2007 Dr. Emily Skinner volunteered during writing time and introduced me to the Writing Workshop approach developed at Teachers College. This provided me with some structure for writing time and has been a resource for ideas when I needed to help a child move forward.

In the fall of 2007 I participated with Dr. Mary Blake in some research looking at the connection between storytelling and story writing competency. As a part of the research I had to tell personal stories to my students at the beginning of journal writing once a week.  The children were encouraged to respond to these stories by sharing their own stories orally and in writing.

The following semester I introduced “writing workshop” with a focus on storytelling. During writing workshop I did not provide any prompts.  I encouraged children to write about events from their real lives (which I often modeled by telling personal stories).  It became clear to me that the children objected to being restricted to what adults considered real.  The children wanted to tell stories that were influenced by popular culture when I restricting story choices I was cutting some children out of the “story club.”  Since then I have intentionally allowed children to write fiction, non-fiction, or autobiographically; recognizing that they would have different levels of comfort with the scripts inherent in these different story forms.

As writing workshop has developed over the years I have created a fairly consistent script for starting it at the beginning of the year:

  1. Allow for independent writing (30-minute block of time)
  2. Share a story with very simple drawings and send the children off to write.
  3. “Did you know I have a cat? His name is Mowgli and he is a scaredy cat. One day a man named Sam came to my house to fix my bathroom. Mowgli hid under my bed. Sam plugged in a very loud machine. Mowgli ran outside so fast I could barely see him. I thought he was lost. I looked under the house and in the bushes and under the car. I called, “Mowgli, Mowgli.” But no Mowgli. My cat…was lost.”
  4. Show them that there are many different ways to write.

Child Writing Examples

Students love sharing their stories with their teachers and especially with each other.  Feel free to ask your child to share what they wrote at any time.  We look forward to watching their stories grow and find ways to capture and share their voice with others!

-Mary J. White, Master Teacher Butterfly Classroom (4/5 year olds)